Ive been natural for about 3 years, ive ordered alot of products off line and tried alot of hair styles. My hair was vary nappy and wouldnt take any of the style without turning out into like a puff.So i put a texturizer in it and that has made a difference for me.Yea alot of  coments have been said that im not as natural but, it was to much to manage, i didnt find a beauty salon that could do natural hair in my area so did what i thought was best and it worked. Ive also notice that others did the same they hust dint want to tell.OOps the word is out, I love being able to wet my hair every day and it feels and swells great all the time. I use shea butter -Unrefined, olive oil and water most the time.

 I put my best foot forward when I went to the banking interview. I wore my best heels and my best perfume... and my natural hair! Yay!! Right? Well I didn't get the job. Not only did I not get the job but I wasnt interviewed by the lady I thought I would be interviewed by. It was a British lady with choppy black hair. One thing I will say about British women is that they are honest. She didn't beat the bush like they say. She went straight for it, " Is that all your hair can do?" LOL I was dying laughing. It had took some soul searching for that not to break me but I actually laughed. Needless to say my hair got an interview... and failed.

Hello All

1. Why are products so expensive?

hello world.. Its me, Valeria.. ok, down to business..  Now, when I decided to go natural, it was a spur of the moment thing. I needed a perm, didn't feel like it, grabbed the scissor and cut it off.. REALLY!! I didn't know anything about taking care of natural hair, I knew nothing.. That was in November... Now full steam ahead, 8 months later..  I have mastered my hair.. I found what works for me! WHOOOOO!!! Now let me tell you my style... FRO'ed .. oh man oh man.. I plat(my moms favorite word) at night, then put a lil oil on in the  morning and then pick it out.. OOOOWEEEE... I be feeling like Pam Grier,, strutting my sexy all over SoCal.... I see the heads turn, and I see the puzzled gazes, but I brush it off.. I think a lot of people don't understand the NATURAL Hair platform... Some people ask me, and I gladly answer them, I just don't want them chemicals in my hair, this is the way God made me, and God don't make mistakes... Can I get a Woop Woop..LOL .. If I want me hair straight, then I straighten it.. Nothing against perms.. really..it did me justice for a very long time, 20 years almost.. I don't knock them, I just don't want one... ya feel me.. I am not on  a crusade.. I am not on a mission to transform anyone.. I just did something to make my head happy, and I think its saying Thank you.. everyday...So say this.. I have learned a new strut!! With Pride I strut me FRO...I love those who stare and question my Au Natural Look, because little do they they know they are feeding this Diva within me.... HA HA HA HA HA

hola chicas,

hello there...i really need to find a good hair butter or oil to moisturize and soften my hair. i hear a lot of good things about shea butter and coconut oil but i haven't the slightest idea where to even look for the stuff or what brand is best for my 4a type hair. any suggestions would be GREATLY appreciated

The last time it rained in Charlotte was the 2nd day of June. Of course, today is the 25th. And the heat is atrocious! I can't believe it is so hot!. This winter was brutal (by Charlotte standards, not mine). So why is it 94-97 degrees everyday? This brings about:::::

I Am Just Now starting my transition to becoming natural. I have a little problem through.. my edges are very brittle and fine... but they strands of hair on my crown is very strong and gets really kinky when i get it wet or wash it..i need help..i have no clue wat to do.. i really dont wanna cut off all my hair in the front !

It's not  the easiest decision I've made. I worry about what people make think of it. My hair won't be as neat as it usually is. There are times that I wash my hair, but a headband on it, and let it air dry. It thickens with waves. I don't get as much compliments with that style as much as I do when I get my hair styled and straighten.